Chris Brown came to my town Saturday night and he had the crowd in a frenzy especially the young ladies. Chris is just the latest in a long line of r&b heartthrobs in the music industry and he's just absolutely handsome and gorgeous. So for selfish reasons I'm going to post a picture of him from this weekend. I wish him a very long and successful career.
There have been a few gospel songs that cross over to grab an R&B secular audience usually during times of economic hardships. So it comes as no surprise that the latest song to achieve that feat is Marvin Sapp’s “Never Would Have Made It” which is steadily climbing the R&B/Hip-Hop charts. In a time when massive unemployment, foreclosures, repossessions are just the tip of the iceberg of a recession this song has an inspirational message that gives the hope as bad as things are you can make it.
On May 21, 2006 at 6:30 p.m. I lost my brother. He wasn’t supposed to die before me I am more than 14 years older than him. People who you can remember clearly before they were born and being almost too nervous to hold them for the first time they are suppose to go after you but that wasn’t the case here. From his boyish appearance to his warm smile Kevin was the peacemaker especially when it came to dealing with our dad.
With my dad and I both being strong minded opinionated Leos, Kevin had a way of being that bridge that would encourage us to make amends and not let things keep us apart for too long. He was kind, friendly, and too many times too wanting of people to like him to the point that he would get used. More than anything he was only 22 and hadn’t tasted what life was or could offer. Nobody is perfect and Kevin had his ups and downs and challenges but more than anything I took for granted time. Time that I thought we would have because certaintly at age 36 and he being only 22 i didn’t think that time would stop for us but it did and not with expectation. I talked to Kevin on a Tuesday afternoon with the last words i’d ever hear from him being I love you too and by Sunday night he was gone, no more I love you’s, no more let’s get together, and no more crazy late night calls just the only reminder of his voice was calling his cell phone until that too was gone forever.
People tell you that with time you can go on and each day gets better but there are times it’s as if it was yesterday that he died. There are moments without any reason i completely breakdown and have a good cry, the grief is too raw and thinking about him for too long just reminds me that i have to live in a world that he doens’t exist in. I will always think of the baby I rocked to Madonna’s ‘Material Girl’ or the little boy who sat at a Michael Jackson concert at the age of 4 and was scared of the fireworks but got excited when he saw the performance of the song ‘BAD’ or the young man he was respectful to all adults, who wanted us to go on a roadtrip to California that we never got around to.
Finally, I will miss those last plans we made to spend Father’s Day of 2006 doing something with our dad and him comforting me in my grief when in March of that same year i’d just lost my stepdad. Kevin used to make me laugh, he used to do things to irritate me in a sibling way, and most of all he used to make me feel like sometimes that he needed to be protected. In the end though all I had left was seeing him after he’d past away and being the wonderful selfless man he’d been in life, he was a organ donar having helped eight families. God bless them, I still miss my little brother.
One of his favorite artists was Mariah Carey, her song 'One Sweet Day' sums up best how deep the lost is and another song that i listened to for quite some time after his passing was T.I.'s 'Live In The Sky' I hope both songs move you as they did me. Warning: T.I.'s song has explicit cursing.
There are plenty of male groups I am a huge fan of but if I were to narrow it down it would be the original Temptations, and Earth, Wind & Fire. The original Temptations were form in Detroit with Eddie Kendricks, David Ruffin, Paul Williams, Melvin Franklin and the only living original member Otis Williams. Their tremendous run of eight R&B no.1s before David was replaced was never matched by the future lineups that came after and that group is considered by many to be the greatest male R&B group ever.
My other favorite all time group is Earth, Wind & Fire. I think that’s largely due to knowing how much of a huge fan my mother was of them and played them a lot when I was a very young child. While The Temptations biggest success came in the 1960s, Earth, Wind & Fire became massive stars in the 1970s. This group which was formed in Chicago, was headed by Maurice White, and featured numerous lineup changes but the two vocals that always stood out where Maurice’s and Philip Bailey. Besides being some of the best musicians they also put on awesome stage performances that many groups of that era borrowed from.
Honorable mention of groups I loved include the Jackson 5/Jacksons, the Commodores, the Ohio Players, the Whispers and the O’Jays.
I'm a woman who enjoys listening to music from the 1950s to the mid 1990s. I love sports and this upcoming election has gotten me passionate about politics.
